ABOUT

Sisterhood is not harmony. It is a revolution.

I work with women who are done coping in isolation.
Done shrinking to stay safe. Done performing to belong.

Bring me your theme. Boundaries. Relationships. Visibility. Self-worth. Sexuality. Conflict. Belonging.
We’ll work with what’s real.

The sister wound is often part of the story, even when it’s not the headline.

That’s the lens I work through, because most ‘personal issues’ are also collective wounds shaped by patriarchy.

I’m Alexandra, a trained coach with a Diploma (FH) in Communication Psychology.

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I didn’t arrive in this work because it sounded beautiful.
I arrived because I know what it costs when women don’t have each other.

For a long time, I wanted sisterhood and I didn’t fully trust it at the same time.
I craved connection, and still felt my body brace.
I learned early how to read a room, adjust my tone, stay easy to be around, just to belong.

In 2011, I volunteered in India with an NGO creating safe spaces for girls in rural communities. I witnessed something I never forgot. When women truly stand with women, a nervous system settles. Shame loosens. A girl’s voice returns.

Between 2013 and 2015, I lived in the Himalayas and devoted myself to contemplative practice. It didn’t put me above life. It made me honest. I learned that transformation is rarely a technique. It is being met. It is being seen without being managed. It is truth held inside relationship.

In 2014, I began hosting moon circles in Berlin. At the time, the format was still new in the city, and I was among the early women bringing it into Berlin’s women’s spaces. Those circles taught me what I now trust. Sisterhood can be medicine, but only when it has structure, boundaries, and repair.

Motherhood cracked me open. I became a mother to twin girls, and the missing village became impossible to ignore. I felt the weight women carry when support is not built into life. I watched how quickly we disappear into functioning, and how rare it is to be held without having to earn it.

It was fawning before I had a name for it, and hiding before I called it fear of being seen.

Today, I hold spaces that are soft and safe, and also clear and strong.
Spaces where women can exhale, tell the truth, and stop shrinking to belong.

Most of us were taught to stay safe, not to stay true.
So we adapt.

We fawn. We smooth. We over-explain. We make ourselves smaller to belong.
And we learn to hide when being visible feels risky, sometimes called the “witch wound”.

This isn’t weakness. It’s survival.
And it’s exactly why sisterhood can feel triggering, even when you crave it.

In my work, we unlearn these patterns and practice something else.
Truth with boundaries, belonging without shrinking, and repair instead of disappearance.

That’s sister wound work.
Because it sits right where safety and belonging collide.

• Sisterhood without performance

• Truth with tenderness

• Boundaries without guilt

• Spaces that can hold discomfort

• Repair instead of disappearance

• Power that does not cost safety

If a space cannot hold honesty, it is not safe. 

And if a space cannot hold boundaries, it is not sisterhood.

My work is grounded, structured, and emotionally intelligent.
I don’t do spiritual bypassing. I don’t do “good vibes” without containment.

I work with what is real. Patterns, nervous system responses, relational dynamics, and the collective conditioning we carry as women.

Depending on the setting, my facilitation may include meditation, coaching-informed reflection, and integration practices.

Every space is held with clear structure and respectful boundaries.

I’m based near Weilheim in Bavaria. I work primarily online and I also facilitate in person by request.

I carry a vision that has lived in me for years.
The Wise Women’s Village.

A place where women live together across generations.
Where you don’t have to earn rest. Where you don’t have to be strong to be loved.
Where you can knock on a door and be met.

A place where women nourish each other, raise children in community, and remember what it feels like to belong.

Where truth is welcome. Where repair is normal. Where sisterhood is practiced, not performed.

I see it as a template that can multiply.
Not one village. Many.

I’m not building this now.
It’s my north star.

And every circle I facilitate, every coaching space I hold, is a small rehearsal for that world.
A world where sisterhood is no longer a wound, but a revolution.

If you want personal support, start with 1:1 coaching.
Tell me what you want to shift. Keep it simple.

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